Tamar Braxton and Vince Herbert’s marriage has been all over the news. From rumored cheating scandals and a secret love child to publicized incidents of domestic violence and divorce filings, Tamar and Vince’s marital downfall has been at the center of a massive news cycle. But even after all of the drama, Vince’s Christmas Day arrest, disturbing accounts of abuse, and a protection order, the “Love & War” singer was spotted at a private event. So, of course, fans had lots to say but most people have been asking the same question: Is Tamar and Vince’s split all part of a big publicity stunt? Well, now Tamar is addressing the situation and explaining what’s really goin’ on.

Sorry, Not Sorry:

According to People magazine, Tamar recently took to social media to address the questionable video circulating online. For those who missed that, the video shows Tamar and Vince at a party together just days after she reportedly got her estranged husband arrested on Christmas Day. So, why would the two be out just days after an explosive altercation? The publication reports that Tamar claims they are not together and have no plans to reconcile but they still hope to remain amicable for the sake of their son, Logan.

“NOPE! Sorry! Not together but since the craziness the other day, we DID agree to create a better environment for my son!!” she shared on Instagram before deleting the post. “Angry or not…it’s about my SON!!” Tamar added, “P.S. we also agreed not to speak on this anymore in public after this! My son can read and he’s NOT dumb #2018goals #praymystrengthinthelord I’ve made LOTS of mistakes and I’m just trying to be a better person.”

Over the weekend, Tamar also released a statement to the publication addressing the Christmas fiasco. “Co-Parenting while going through a divorce is not an easy task. While celebrating the Christmas holiday as a family, after a few drinks and some jealousy, things got a bit out of hand, which is common for most families during the holidays,” Tamar said in a statement to E! News this past weekend. “In the midst of everything our family is going through things got heated and a bit exaggerated. To be clear, there was no physical interaction between Vince and I on Christmas.”

She continued, “I cannot paint him as a vicious abuser, that Vince is not. I’m deeply hurt and saddened that this will be how we will remember Christmas 2017, but, my moto is and maintains to be ‘Bluebird of Happiness’ and nobody will stop my joy and Blessings going into the New Year! God Bless!”

Bye, Bye Instagram:

After spilling all the tea and offering clarity about her relationship with Vince, Tamar shocked fans by deactivating her Instagram account. For most fans, Tamar and Vince have had the most confusing split reported in a while. Despite her claiming they have no plans to reconcile, their actions say otherwise.