For the first time ever, Mary J. Blige’s soon-to-be-ex-husband, Kendu Isaacs is letting the world know how he really feels about the jabs she’s been throwing his way throughout their divorce process.

After last night’s BET Awards aired, Kendu took to Instagram to blast the hell outta Mary for her performance, which was centered around his alleged cheating and money-grubbin’ demands.

She stepped onto stage in true Mary fashion and she looked like a woman on a mission. While performing a song off of her new album, Strength of A Woman, the lyrics aimed at Kendu included, “there’s a special place in hell for you.” Apparently Kendu had a problem with that, so he wrote that her intro was forced. Then he actually extended an open invitation to Mary to have a face-to-face chit chat with her so they could finally squash their beef.

That’s probably easier said than done, because he’s not the one who just got court ordered to drop $30 G’s on her every month…it’s the other way around. So yeah, it’s understandable why Mary probably will pass on that invite. Anywho, check out Kendu’s Instagram rant below and talk to us fam’…let us know what y’all think about this one…

@kenduisaacs: That intro was so forced!!!!! Ok. It’s time for me to tell the truth.

@kenduisaacs: I love you to death Mary J. Blige. I can’t even begin to understand why you are going on about this the way you have been. I never wanted to discuss our life airing the laundry. You know me better than that. You and I really need to talk and stop all this negative nonsense. I love you and I will always regardless of your actions.

On second thought, maybe it wouldn’t be a bad idea for Mary to have a sit down with Kendu…you never know, he might be willing to take a smaller spousal support agreement if she pretends that she doesn’t hate ’em right now. That, too, is waaaay easier said than done though. Fake never wins, and besides, being real is the only Mary J. Blige knows how to be.