Tamar recently visited the Andy Cohen led Watch What Happens Live to discuss the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion when the subject of Wendy and all of her current turmoil came into question. When asked if she had been in contact with Wendy Tamar kept it all the way G and, according to Hot New Hip Hop, came up with the answer that truly reflects her thoughts on the situation.

“Her whole life is in the public eye, and you don’t know what’s really the truth, and what’s not the truth, and so you just, kind of, wait and let people come to you,” she added. “You might send a message like, ‘I’m here for you,’ but sometimes you don’t even want to hear that. You just, kind of, got to go through it and then reach out to people.”

Great response Tamar. Classy and shade-free, probably because as someone who also lives their life in the public eye she knows of what she speaks. Check out the entire segment below.