Tamar’s bae,’ David Adefeso, also took to Instagram to try to explain the root causes of what he’s now learned about Tamar’s pain and tempter tantrums. Simply put, he blames her past child molestation and her abusive relationships for her issues that are manifesting today:
“When I met my @tamarbraxton 12 months ago she was angry, distraught and almost-completely broken. She’d lost her family, her friends, her job and was estranged from her mom and sisters who she loves so much. While her behavior was a significant cause of these misfortunes, it took me a while to recognize that there were other equally valid causes, including being repeatedly assaulted by men in her life she trusted (first physically as a child, then emotionally later on in life by deeply aggressive and utterly controlling romantic relationships); finally culminating in the continuing psychological damage brought on by working on a TV show she feels utterly shackled to due to contract terms.”
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