To say that Usher and his ex-wife, Tameka Foster, have had a ‘rocky past,’ would be an understatement. However, they are making people smile with what they’ve just done for Usher’s 40th. Hold up, we’ll let that sink in for a minute. Usher -the youngin,’ who was singing “My Way” years ago- is officially part of the Old School 40 and up club. Anywho, now that he’s divorcing his current wife, Grace Miguel, check out just how far he and his ex-wife have now come.
As most of us know, their union and it’s aftermath was filled with extreme bitterness, pain and the ultimate grief.
Their Ongoing Grief
After being married for 2 years and 3 months, they officially divorced in 2009. Sadly, by 2012, Tameka’s then 11 year old son, Kyle Glover, lost his life during a freak accident on water skies with family members. Usher loved Kyle like he was his own flesh and blood, even though he was merely his ex-stepfather by that time.
Months later, fearing for the safety of his own two sons with Tameka, Usher filed for and won sole custody of their sons that same year. It was one of the most bitter and painful custody battles ever.
Tameka Defends Herself Against Herpes Scandal
Then by 2017, Tameka found herself being dragged into Usher’s public drama over his ongoing herpes scandal and accusations. During that time, Tameka was forced to have to speak out to let folks know that every last one of the herpes allegations against Usher happened AFTER they were no longer together and that her health is in 100% tip top shape.
What They’ve Just Done…TOGETHER
Thankfully, they’re in a better space now. Matter of fact, for the first time since he’s been married to Grace, Usher and Tameka actually posed for happy-go-lucky reunion style pics at a public event, just days before his birthday.
As if that wasn’t shocking enough, Mr. ‘Ursher baby’ was showered with love by the ex-wifey for his October 14th 40th b-day celebration. In a very rare move, Tameka took to Instagram to wish her ex-man happy birthday, along with video and photos of Usher and their sons. In her post caption, Tameka clowned the brotha about finally becoming an “old man” and she referred to herself as Usher’s “best mistake.”
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo7SmswHOkK/
“tamekafoster@Usher you always said you wanted to know me when “we were in rockers, laughing on a porch”. Welp buddy you’re half way there! ♀️We have endured good times, fat times, bad brows, goofy moments, funny assed memories, sad ones, happy days, pissed hours and many mad months. Through it all… I’m grateful for our Family dynamic and my funny, beautiful, smart, charismatic boys! Welcome to the 40s old man, love you like cooked food Ush Boogie! ♀️♥️ HAPPY BIRTHDAY Usher!!! Always, Your “Best Mistake” 17 years and Counting ✨✨✨ #TurnUpPops #Lifer #MeetTheCoParents”
Fans React
Fans were more than happy to see the two finally push past their longstanding pain to get their grown-folks-on, with their peaceful co-parenting friendship:
kittyki****: Beautiful Tameka good friends n co parents! Nothing wrong with that!
wmtu****:
mizz_unbreakable_by_****: Yess sis love this
luvfashio****: This is what I needI pray to get the hate out of my heart♀️Happy Bday Ush
khaye****: I want to get here. #growth. Thank you God
gustal****: Omg you are an Amazing being @tamekafoster Happy Birthday Ush
Happy 40th birthday Usher…wishing ya’ many more!